If, like me, you have struggled, searched
and yearned to consistently possess joy and contentment, I believe that there
is a secret to finding these two elusive
yet profoundly necessary elements
that millions spend their lives in pursuit of but always find them just beyond
their grasp. It would be easy to say, “Send me $99.95 and I’ll send you my latest book that
will unlock the secrets to JOY AND CONTENTMENT.
Call within the next 10 minutes and I’ll double your offer to share with
a friend and throw in my magic chopper that slices, dices and makes julienne
fries!”
Would you believe it’s easier than
that to access ….and that there is no money necessary?
Over the last 5 decades I’ve
heard more than my fair share of sermons, after dinner speakers and even quacks
peddling the latest and greatest items, making unbelievable and unattainable
promises. Some say, “God wants you rich and prosperous! Give a gift of (fill in the
blank) today to…..” and while parts of that are true, mainly I hear a
well-meaning person soliciting funds for their own pleasure and financial gain. Don’t get me wrong: God will bless you when
you give but it’s not necessarily monetary prosperity that you will know.
At a gas station once, we
witnessed a father at the counter with a small child who was buying lottery
tickets (which in pursuit of joy and contentment, you’d be better off to set
your money on fire and douse it with gasoline, but….). When the child asked for a piece of candy,
the father said, “NO! You don’t need it.
And we’re not going to tell your Mom that WE bought these lottery
tickets! It’s our little secret!”
When someone tells you that you must keep a secret to yourself about anything, it’s rarely a good thing. Nothing will be kept secret long-term: “After having heard it all, this is the
conclusion: Fear God, and keep his commands, because this applies to everyone. God
will certainly judge everything that is done. This includes every secret thing, whether it is good or bad.”
(Ecclesiastes 12:13-14)
When I read this morning from
Philippians 4, I was reminded once again of what God continues to bring to my
attention---and I am a such a very, very,
very slow learner! The scripture is included at the bottom but I find lists
easier to understand:
- 1. Rejoice in the Lord!
- 2. REJOICE! (see #1)
- 3. Be considerate.
- 4. God is near.
- 5. Never worry: Pray and
- 6. give thanks instead (refer to #1)
- 7. If, by God’s help, you can do #1-6, His PEACE and CONTENTMENT will guard your thoughts and emotions through Christ Jesus.
Here is where I differ from some: by God’s grace, I WILL CHOOSE to find
something to be thankful for in any situation. While God does not send
temptations or bad things to us, we can learn from what the evil one (I will not capitalize the name of the enemy!)
uses to distract, detract, destroy or stupify God’s children!
Stop for just a minute and
re-read #7. Read it slowly.
I’ll wait.
Did you notice that if we choose
to give thanks and rejoice what will happen?
I don’t know about you but my thoughts and emotions are generally what
gets me in trouble. If I allow my
thoughts and emotions an inch, they will jump on me and deflate my day quicker
than a sharp pin on a big, fat balloon.
Yep. BOOOOOMMMMMM!
Allow me to put it like this: my
wonderful, loving and faithful husband is handicapped from birth. Each
year his mobility decreases a little bit more. Tell me: how or why is that
something to rejoice
about? I’ll tell you the truth: in the
eyes of the world, it is grounds for anger, resentment, frustration and
desertion. I have struggled with those emotions, believe me. Boom! Burst the balloon and
then POW, slap to the face.
BUT..... I am a child of the LIVING GOD. I have a choice to
make! Because of this, I choose to rejoice
that I have a husband who loves me just as I am. I choose to rejoice that he is God’s child
and that he is God’s gift to me! When he
needs help because of physical limitations, once again I have a choice to make:
be considerate and loving or be angry and
resentful of how it infringes on “my time”.
I could worry about what tomorrow or next year or the next 10 years
holds and how on earth will I ever be able to care for him as we age together?
No. I will not go there. I chose to
focus on today. God is near; while I cannot see or know the
future, I know who holds both the future ….and who holds me… in the palm of His
hand. Knowing this, I choose to give
thanks. I choose to pray. I choose to
pour out my heart to God and trust the future---whatever may happen---into His
loving care. Let’s face it: there is
very little we can do to control the future.
What I can control (by the grace of God) are my actions and reactions as
the future unfolds!
Paul states in Philippians 4 how
you can insure God’s peace. Did you know
that peace is a choice? It’s not
something God gives only to His favorites; it’s available to ALL of His
children! It’s as simple as focusing on
what is right and deserves our praise.
The short list includes whatever is:
true
+ honorable
+ fair
+ acceptable
+ commendable
= God’s peace
It costs nothing in the finances
of the world but it may change some of your relationships when you choose not
to gossip around the coffee pot or the water cooler. Or when you have a choice of cutting corners
to finish sooner vs. doing the job correctly, even though it may cost extra
time and/or money. What about the tv
shows you watch or the books you read: is it something you could enjoy with
your pastor or a child at your side? When you think no one’s looking, do you still
choose to do the right thing? Do you
always give your best? Do you admit it when you make a mistake and then correct
it? Do you take time to read God’s Word and talk to Him each day?
These are questions I ask myself
over and over. They are not meant to condemn you but to keep
me honest. When I go to bed at
night, I want to know that I have endeavored to be and do the very best that I
could because that’s what God did for me. When He created this beautiful world …and
when He gave His one and only Son, Jesus Christ, to die not for his own sin of
his own but for my poor, dumb, sorry, rotten, wretched self. With that in mind, how on earth could I do anything but
rejoice?
“Always rejoice in the Lord! I'll say it again: Rejoice! Let
everyone know how considerate you are. The Lord is near. Never worry about anything.
But in every situation let God know what you need in prayers and requests while
giving thanks. Then God's peace, which goes beyond anything we can imagine,
will guard your thoughts and emotions through Christ Jesus….keep your thoughts
on whatever is right or deserves praise: things that are true, honorable, fair,
pure, acceptable, or commendable. Practice what you've learned and received
from me, what you heard and saw me do. Then the God who gives this peace will
be with you.”
Philippians 4:4-8
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