Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Holiness in the Wesley Hymns

John Wesley encouraged his followers to seek holy, perfecting love.  This was a love that Wesley emphasized by teaching and embodied by example: in the Old Testament, through God the Father, as He attempted time and again to seek relationship with sinful man; in the Gospels, through God the Son, who gave Himself to a world that was, and remains to this day, His enemy; and finally throughout the New Testament with the gift of the Paraclete. 
John and Charles were born the sons Samuel and Susanna Wesley of Lincolnshire, England. Father Samuel was a busy priest at Epworth who left the majority of the child rearing to Susanna.  Both men were educated first at Westminster then at Christ Church Oxford. John joined Charles and some friends in what became known by mockers as the “Oxford Holy Club” because of their mutual commitment to study scripture daily, live holy lives, be faithful in private devotions and actively visit those in prison.  John recalled this time in their lives uniquely:
In 1729, two young men reading the Bible, saw they could not be saved without holiness, followed after it and incited others so to do.  In 1737, they saw that holiness comes by faith.  They saw likewise, that men are justified before they are sanctified; but still holiness was their point.  God then thrust them out, utterly against their will to raise up a holy people. (Asbury Journals)
Justo Gonzales wrote: “As a pastor in Georgia, he failed miserably, for he expected parishioners to behave like the ‘holy club’…Charles was disappointed with his own work on this trip and decided to return to England. But John stayed on, not because he had greater success but because he refused to give up.” (p. 266). During these formative years, John Wesley had been the Moravians. Their confidence and assurance in God’s salvation despite life-threatening circumstances caused John to re-examine his own life and find it lacking.  History marks May 1738 as a turning point for both John and Charles. Some would term their experiences as conversion, others as a second work of grace in the power of the Holy Spirit.  I propose that the distinct terminology of this experience matters not nearly so much as how the Spirit of the Lord broke into their lives to use them to reach their own countrymen and eventually to the corners of the earth. 
A fire was sparked in the Wesley brothers in May of 1738 that would turn upside down their own faith and, as I submitted previously, for the faith of a good portion of the English speaking world.  Because of the Holy Spirit’s work, John and Charles perceived the Spirit’s leading them to spread the gospel outside of the physical church walls.  At the encouragement of their Holy Club colleague, George Whitefield, John warmed to the idea of field preaching.  While the Church of England served the middle and upper classes with spiritual training, it effectively closed out the lower castes.  Because of this inequity, many of the working class were without any spiritual direction.  Whitefield, and eventually the Wesley brothers, preached salvation to this hungry group of people and met great success, a stark contrast to what appeared to be their fruitless outreach to the colony of Georgia. 
George Whitefield differed from John and Charles in that he clung closely to preaching merely salvation to the masses.  This was momentarily effective, drawing the attention of thousands into saving grace; however, it also left many who wished to change languishing in -- or returning eventually to former lives of sin.  This is where the Holy Spirit set John and Charles aflame, effectively utilizing them as kindling to what became the roaring fire of the Methodist Movement.  John, aided closely by his brother, Charles, organized those converted into societies, bands and classes of accountability who would together worship and grow in holiness. In these societies, men and women were challenged to turn not only from sin but toward God, through scripture and living the life of grace. John, the elder Wesley, was so attuned to the necessities of public worship that in the 1761 publication of “Select Hymns”, he gives seven very basic directions for singing to the Methodists that are included to this day in United Methodist hymnals:

       I.          Learn these tunes before you learn any others; afterwards learn as many as you please
     II.          Sing them exactly as they are printed here, without altering or mending them at all; and if you have learned to sing them otherwise, unlearn it as soon as you can.
   III.          Sing all. See that you join with the congregation as frequently as you can. Let not a single degree of weakness or weariness hinder you. If it is a cross to you, take it up, and you will find it a blessing.
  IV.          Sing lustily and with good courage. Beware of singing as if you were half dead, or half asleep; but lift up your voice with strength. Be no more afraid of your voice now, nor more ashamed of its being heard, then when you sung the songs of Satan.
    V.          Sing modestly. Do not bawl, so as to be heard above or distinct from the rest of the congregation, that you may not destroy the harmony; but strive to unite your voices together, so as to make one clear melodious sound.
  VI.          Sing in time. Whatever time is sung be sure to keep with it. Do not run before nor stay behind it; but attend close to the leading voices, and move therewith as exactly as you can; and take care not to sing too slow. This drawling way naturally steals on all who are lazy; and it is high time to drive it out from us, and sing all our tunes just as quick as we did at first.
VII.          Above all sing spiritually. Have an eye to God in every word you sing. Aim at pleasing him more than yourself, or any other creature. In order to do this attend strictly to the sense of what you sing, and see that your heart is not carried away with the sound, but offered to God continually; so shall your singing be such as the Lord will approve here, and reward you when he cometh in the clouds of heaven. (United Methodist Hymnal, vii)

These rules further aided the Wesleys in teaching singing and specifically singing scriptural holiness with their followers. While the Church of England’s order of worship encouraged choirs, soloists and special ensembles, Wesley’s revised orders encouraged the voice of the congregation: “Methodist Singing was decidedly congregational.  In corporate worship, efforts were to be made to ensure the greatest level of participation.” (Tucker, 159) 
A generous measure of Wesley’s legacy to the Methodist Movement was an emphasis on worship and most especially the encouragement of singing!  While John Wesley’s name headlined the Methodist movement, younger brother, Charles, was considered the hymnodic genius.  The Center for Studies Wesleyan at Duke University states:
Scholarly study of Charles Wesley has been hampered by the absence of a reliable and accessible standard source for his published verse. The original works published during his lifetime are quite rare, scattered among research libraries. …..This collection gathers the nearly 4,400 distinct poems and hymns published during Charles Wesley’s life that scholarly consensus traces to his pen. (Duke website).
The reference to 4,400 poems and hymns of Charles Wesley encompasses only those texts that were published and directly attributable to him.  It is widely agreed that he penned 6,000-9,000 hymns and poetic texts during the course of his life. It is generally accepted that John frequently translated many hymns for the people called Methodist but rarely composed original hymn texts.
John and Charles were successful in utilizing the ever increasing amount of hymnody to teach both scripture and their unique doctrine of Christian Perfection.  “Perfection” was the term John Wesley chose to characterize holiness based upon Matthew 5:48, which is reflective of Leviticus 19:2; The idea that Wesley taught through the scriptures:  God’s command to be holy or perfect. This is not be confused with the dictionary definition of perfection: completely correct, void of flaws. John Wesley believed that the power of God calls us (prevenient grace), saves us from our sins (justifying grace), and fills us with the love of God (sanctifying grace).  Because God is capable of both forgiving and forgetting our sin (Psalm 103:10-14), Wesley saw the potential as outlined in the scriptures to live free from the constraints of sin. “By perfection, I mean the humble, gentle, patient love of God, and our neighbor, ruling our tempers and actions….I do not include an impossibility of falling from it, either in part or in whole….and I do not contend for the term sinless.” (Wesley, p. 446) 
If[D1]  a believer chose to follow Christ and live in the power and forgiveness each day, he could in essence, return to being made in the image of God, lost when Adam and Eve were expelled from the Garden.  “The Spirit keeps stirring…. Christians on the wave-length of the Spirit to see their own faults, see needs around them, sense the urge to speak or be still, and grasp truth with spiritual insight. If we listen, He will develop in us a sense of propriety.  He gently shows us some area that needs correction, we must obey.” (Taylor, P. 192ff) Living in obedience allows God to reveal sin and to be forgiven and replaced immediately back into relationship with the loving Father.  

Wesley taught that genuine faith produces inward and outward holiness.  Jesus taught that true Christian discipleship requires loving God with all the heart, soul, mind, and strength and loving neighbor as self (Matthew 22:34-40).  Whereas Luther and Calvin tended to view perfection in the absolute sense (i.e. perfect performance), Wesley understood it in a theological sense as having to do with maturity of character and ever-increasing love for God.  The New Testament word “perfection” translates from a Greek term that means maturity or completion: it does not mean flawlessness. (Anderson)
The Wesley brothers did reach people for Christ and discipled them effectively through the means of music.
In order to implant Methodist teaching in the minds and memories of the people, the Wesleys had for many years incorporated hymn-singing into their services….Singing also gave the believers an opportunity to testify to their shared spiritual experience. Wesley warned against “formality” in singing—the complex tunes that are not possible to sing with devotion…the repetition of words that shocks all common sense and ‘has no more religion in it that a Lancashire hornpipe.’ (Heitzenrater, P. 231)
While John and Charles Wesley’s illumination of scripture changed the world in powerful and pure ways through teaching, preaching, hymnody and living holy lives, I wish now to zoom our focus specifically on perfecting love and the implication it brings to the Christian life.  “The doctrine of entire sanctification contends the believer can be victorious over sin.” (Robb, p. 50). This is completed, according to John Oswalt, in large part through four steps:
(1) We must remember again that there is nothing we can do to make  God love us any more than he does at this moment.
(2) Remember that the holy life is not performance, but a new set of attitudes and a new way of responding to God’s love. 
(3) Deal with failures real or perceived [by] distinguishing between sin and temptation to sin. 
(4) Self-understanding, realizing the potential for godliness that becames our upon accepting Christ can go on without the hindrance of inner rebellion. (Oswalt, p. 195ff)  

Indeed, the best known Charles Wesley hymn is “O For a Thousand Tongues to Sing” (UMH #57), written in 1739 to commemorate the first anniversary of his conversion and published in 1740 in the Hymns and Sacred Poems under the title “For the Anniversary Day of One’s Conversion”. The fourth stanza states cle­arly:  He breaks the power of canceled sin, he sets the prisoner free;  his blood can make the foulest clean; his blood availed for me.

Charles Wesley’s grasp of scripture, coupled with the poet’s gift and the need to teach new converts how to grow in grace, defending themselves against an unseen enemy is clearly seen in “I Want a Principle Within” (UMH#410).

I want a principle within of watchful, godly fear,
a sensibility of sin, a pain to feel it near.
I want the first approach to feel of pride or wrong desire,
to catch the wandering of my will, And quench the kindling fire.

From thee that I no more may stray, no more thy goodness grieve,
grant me the filial awe, I pray, the tender conscience give.
Quick as the apple of an eye, O God, my conscience make;
awake my soul when sin is nigh, and keep it still awake.

Almighty God of truth and love, to me thy power impart;
 the mountains of my soul remove, the hardness of my heart. 
O may the least omission pain my reawakened soul,
and drive me to that blood again, which makes the wounded whole.


Speaking directly of perfection and consuming, holy love, Charles penned five verses in “O For a Heart to Praise my God” (NNU website), which allude to the social holiness element of perfection that the Wesley brothers saw as an integral part of a holy life:

O for a heart to praise my God, a heart from sin set free!
A heart that always feels thy blood, so freely spilt for me!

A heart resigned, submissive, meek, my dear Redeemer’s throne,
Where only Christ is heard to speak where Jesus reigns alone. 

A humble, lowly, contrite heart, believing, true, and clean,
Which neither life nor death can part from him that dwells within.

A heart in every thought renewed and full of Love Divine,
Perfect, and right, and pure and good, a copy, Lord, of Thine.

Thy tender heart is still the same, and melts at human woe;
Jesus, for Thee distrest I am, I want thy love to know.

I must in good conscience admit that Charles and John, like typical brothers, did not always agree on every point.  In fact, they often disagreed, including over the issue of perfection. “Charles was also prone to self-depreciation and tended to set his expectations too high, claiming in regard to entire sanctification ‘all the struggle then is over. I wrestle not.’ At times he expressed a morbid view of life.  He was influenced throughout his life by the mystical writers.” (Reasoner, p. 65).  An example of this thought process is found in “Love Divine, All Loves Excelling” (UMH#384):
Love divine, all loves excelling, joy of heaven to earth come down;
fix in us thy humble dwelling; all thy faithful mercies crown!
Jesus, thou art all compassion, pure, unbounded love thou art;
visit us with thy salvation; enter every trembling heart.

Breathe, O breathe thy loving Spirit into every troubled breast!
Let us all in thee inherit; let us find that second rest. 
Take away our bent to sinning; Alpha and Omega be;
end of faith, as its beginning, set our hearts at liberty.

Charles would, at times, personify himself as the character in a Bible story and make it his own, as he did in “Come, O Thou Traveler Unknown” (UMH#386), which encompasses Genesis 32:24-32 as Jacob struggles with God only to find that as the morning breaks, “thy nature and thy name is (Universal) Love.”
Another hymn speaks of justification, perfection and action to be God’s agents in the current world, “Eternal Son, Eternal Love” (Hymnal ???):
Eternal Son, eternal Love, Take to thyself the mighty power;
Let all earth’s sons thy mercy prove; Let all thy saving grace adore.

The triumphs of thy love display; In every heart reign thou alone,
Til all thy foes confess thy sway, And glory ends what grace begun.

Spirit of grace and health and power, Fountain of light and love below,
Abroad thy healing influence shower,  O’er all the nations let it flow.

Inflame our hearts with perfect love; in us the work of faith fulfill,
So not heaven’s host shall swifter move than we on earth, to do thy will.
  A little known hymn, “Thou Hidden Source of Calm Repose” (UMH #153) takes on both themes, victory over sin and holy love:
Thou hidden source of calm repose, thou all-sufficient love divine,
 my help and refuge from my foes, secure I am if thou art mine;
and lo! From sin and grief and shame I hide me, Jesus, in thy name.

Thy mighty name salvation is, and keeps my happy soul above;
 comfort it brings, and power and peace, and joy and everlasting love;
to me with thy dear name are given pardon and holiness and heaven.

In want my plentiful supply, in weakness my almighty power,
in bond my perfect liberty, my light in Satan’s darkest hour,
in grief my joy unspeakable, my life in death, my heaven in hell.

John and Charles Wesley espoused the idea that there is no holiness without social holiness.Holiness itself implies an awareness of and sensitivity to the social implications of the Gospel.
There was great concern for the poor and disadvantaged among early holiness people. They knew nothing of the separation between personal piety and social concern that has marked the evangelical church of the last half-century.” (Purkiser, 5.I)  While not nearly as well known, this text of Charles Wesley, “Come, Thou Holy God, and True” outlines social holiness in verses 3-5 below:

Be to every sufferer nigh, hearing not in vain,
of the widow in distress, of the poor, the fatherless:

Raiment give to all that need, the cry to the hungry furnish bread,
to the sick now give relief, sooth the hapless prisoners’ grief:

Love, which wills that all should live, Love, which all to all would give,
Love, that over all prevails, Love, that never, never fails.
Refrain: Love immense and unconfined, Love to all of humankind.

John Oswalt aptly states: “So why does God want to make us holy? So that, forgetting ourselves and our comfort and our prerogatives, we can handle the precious lives of those around us with clean hands.  Like the manna in the wilderness, if we try to keep our holiness for ourselves, it will grow sour and rancid in us….holiness is not an end in itself so that we can revel in our own purity, but it is for the sake of others. God’s reply, down through the ages, must reply  ‘You must be holy, because I am holy’ is not a demand, but a wonderful offer.” (Oswalt, p. 197ff). 
The unique doctrine of perfecting, holy, consuming love is captivatingly spoken of in “Jesus, Thine All-Victorious Love” (UMH#422)
Jesus, thine all victorious love shed in my heart abroad;
then shall my feet no longer rove, rooted and fixed in God.
O that in me the sacred fire might now begin to glow;
burn up the dross of base desire and make the mountains flow!
O that it now from heaven might fall and all my sins consume!
Come, Holy Ghost, for thee I call, Spirit of burning, come!
Refining fire, go through my heart, illuminate my soul;
scatter thy life through every part and sanctify the whole.

Through the gift of perfecting love, our eyes are opened to the needs all around us.  We are enabled to see the needs of others and especially our great need of a Savior who forgives.  Shoe-horned into the middle of Luke, Jesus proclaimed unapologetically: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”  (Matthew 22:37-39).  This is the Wesleyan perfection--- If we are ruled by love, redeployed by the Holy Spirit to share this holy love, God will use this as an unstoppable force for good.
Routley goes so far as to say that Charles did not write the majority of his texts to be sung in a congregation but primarily by soloists and trained choirs.  The popular tunes of the day were from secular operas; while this music literature was attractive, it was largely unsingable by the average lay person.  “[Charles] wrote what John wanted: hymns for the devout in class-meetings, and hymns for the heathen in the fields where their open-air preaching was done.  He would write very simply: he could write in remote and complex phrases; he could do something as clear and captivating as the text which underlie ' Hark, the Herald Angels sing’, and something next day perhaps, as allusive and contemplative as ‘Come, O Thou Traveler’.  But while many of his hymns make first-rate congregational material, they were mainly solos….even when the words are universal and communal, the music was of the kind inspired by Handel and the lesser opera-composers of the 1730s.” (Routley, p. 40)  Largely, his hymns written for congregational use were 1-2 verses, so that they could be sung by their followers and particularly easier to learn and memorize doctrine for even the simplest minded saint. 
Hardly any of this music is in general use now; It is because hymn singing now is so different from what either (Isaac) Watts or the Wesleys knew that we are not most familiar with the most ‘public’ of Wesley’s hymns At present the Wesley hymns are mostly for reading and meditation and perhaps the occasional solo or choral piece rather than for the congregational singing we are now accustomed to.  Meanwhile we can just notice the exquisite sensitiveness and insight which enable him so accurately to portray the silence of heaven, the joys of penitence and the guiltless shame.  (Routley, p. 41)  

Should the baby be thrown-out with the bathwater if they are considered outdated or even inaccessible?  Timothy Tennent’s words from the New Room Conference relate: “Wesleyan Christianity is still applicable because it does not focus solely on justification.” (Tennant)  While the Wesley Hymns provide a rich heritage and backdrop for our faith, I don’t believe John or Charles would want us to focus on any hymn text as the object of our faith.  They would, however want us to keep keen focus upon the greatest commandment: Love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength, loving our neighbor as ourselves, everything else will fall into place.  In so doing, how can we keep from singing?

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Saturday, January 3, 2015

Basic Beef Vegetable Soup

Vegetable Soup

1+ lb. left-over roast beef or fresh stew meat cubed
1 large can tomato juice
3-4 bags frozen vegetable soup mix vegetables
2 beef bouillon cubes
2 Tablespoons Dales or other steak seasoning (liquid)
1 large onion* sautéd with meat above
2-3 Tablespoons dried parsley
1 Tablespoon Mrs. Dash
1 Bay Leaf
Salt
Pepper

Sauté fresh meat with onion just until browned in dutch oven.  If using leftover meat, brown onion, then add tomato juice and meat on Medium high heat until onion is tender.  Put in large dutch oven (or crock pot) and combine all other ingredients.  Cook until vegetables look sufficiently dead (should not crunch! Lol).  Freezes well and even better reheated.

Can use ham instead and/or ham bone (or ham hocks) in place of meat—adds much more flavor!

*See previous article on choosing produce

Friday, January 2, 2015

Choosing Onions and Other Produce




God gave you hands and eyes and a sense of smell.  Use them when choosing produce! This is by no means exhaustive but are simple, basic tips to keep in mind as you shop.
Onions, potatoes and root vegetables (turnips, carrots, sweet potatoes....the fruit grows in the ROOTS or underground) should be firm and no weakening or weepy/wet spots, which shows age and/or deterioration.  When choosing onions I prefer to buy the sweet variety as they cause very little or no stinging to the eyes when cut!


One of my favorite fresh vegetables is celery.  Before grabbing the closest one, check for color and texture.  IF THE STALK BENDS DON'T BUY IT.  Fresh celery is rigid and has no give.  When I get it home I cut off the very end where the stalks are all joined before washing each stalk thoroughly.  Then I cut each stalk at the "knuckle", where it branches and the leaves have started to grow. Take a moment to cut a itty bit of the end off the stock that is dead from harvesting. Set this part aside (Don't throw it away!).  Cut the majority of the GREEN outer stalks according your preferential length to eat and enjoy.  I put mine in a ziplock bag with a tiny bit of water in the bottom to keep them fresh.  Some people prefer aluminum foil.  For the celery hearts (the inside that is light green or yellow) and the knuckles you removed....Chop finely to your preference a seal in a small ziplock bag before tossing into your freezer.  This is great to use when you make vegetable or bean soup for flavor, color and texture!

When buying lettuce, or other fruits and vegetables, don't buy the prepared and packaged kind unless you are super short on time AND plan to use it in short order.  In the original package that God created is always best.  The more hands that touch it to process it, the closer it is to the end of its shelf life is my experience.  For instance, I used to buy bagged salad and end up throwing half or more away because it went bad before I used it.  Now I buy fresh lettuce---romaine or other leaf lettuce, never iceberg (very little nutritional value and no flavor!) and it keeps for WEEKS in my refrigerator.  The icing on the cake?  It is a FRACTION of the price and much fresher.  Wash only what you will use and put the rest back in your produce compartment in the fridge. If you must prepare a large quantity with the potential of leftovers, tear the lettuce with your hands vs. cutting with a knife.  It bruises the lettuce and the edges turn brown quickly after interaction as a result of contact with the knife.

Making a fruit salad? Add the juice of the fruit you're using, especially pineapple!  Don't add apples or bananas until the very last minute because of their short life after being cut.  If you must cut ahead of time, squeeze a little citrus juice (or cartoned orange juice) over them to prevent the browning.

Another "problem child" in the browning department is avocado.  Who doesn't love guacamole for delicious Mexican food or some sliced on a sandwich?  Don't throw out the left overs just because it turns after a tiny bit of time in your fridge.  Put in the smallest container it will fit in and then gently press plastic wrap over it to remove most/all of the air.  Even if a tiny bit turns brown, the flavor is still good!

Emphasizing Strengths




My Mom was a TALENTED and well-educated woman.  She loved people and we entertained often.  She grew up in a family that threw big, lavish parties....but they also had help that did much of the preparation, leaving them to enjoy the party.  Mom learned basics of cooking but it was not her forte.  Her basic "go-to" meal was baked ham (or ham loaf), green beans, sweet potatoes, corn souffle, pineapple and a green congealed jello/cottage cheese salad with chopped pecans on top.  I don't remember her baking other than german chocolate or carrot cakes.  Pies were always frozen---we didn't complain---but ice cream was generally homemade in the summer.  There was never a shortage of ice cream at the Uible house! Speaking of summer, Dad had a helaciously big garden.  His favorites to cultivate were strawberries and asparagus.  The children had no problem liking the strawberries but asparagus is not something I appreciated until I was old enough to buy it and realize it can be an expensive delicacy.  He would pinch off strawberry blooms to get more runners and bigger berries.  Alas, I am wandering far off the path and about to step into the fertilizer, so I will come back to where I intended to go!

Mom would just as soon play cards or read a book or visit in the nursing home as to cook.  Eating out was always more preferable, especially as she grew older!  What I've learned about cooking has been from other folks and life is too short for all of us to make the same mistakes.  In light of that, I've decided to insperse some of the lessons my Mom attempted to teach me by her wonderful example and no-nonsense parenting and frugal spending with some basic cooking lessons I've learned or taught myself.  If you're looking for fine cooking---which if you've read this far, you're not OR you are looking for comic relief---please see my delightful friend, Renee's blog at www.http://joytomyheart.com/

Monday, December 22, 2014

Two Wrongs Don't Make a Right

One of the things Mom said was “two wrongs don’t make a right.”  In working with children, inevitably there is a “he said/she said” saga that goes something like this…..”She hit me first.” Which is immediately met with, “UH-UH! He spit on me!” While the rhetoric and actions may differ with subtlety, the idea is the same.  One action doesn’t justify the other, no matter who acted first.  I would further add to the wisdom of my mother that there are ALWAYS, at the very least, two sides to every story.  Those who witness a quarrel of any magnitude will see it through their particular lens, including the angle at which they stand;  each individual lens is highly affected by their current--and most especially their past--environment.


Like many, I have witnessed from a distance the growing tension in our country.  I have demonstrated peacefully in my youth with government actions I disagreed with.  Peaceful demonstrations do not include looting, destruction of property or threatening behavior.  Further escalating these actions are those who “stir the pot” such as Al Sharpton and Eric Holder.  When there is a rush to announce action or a verdict before all facts are known, mistakes are inevitable. Big mistakes.  Limited even further by my own lens, I am probably foolish to attempt even one facet of the discussions.  Nonetheless, I am my mother’s daughter and I will rush in where angels fear to trod.


1)      Yes, there are definitely corrupt and evil law enforcement officers but they are rare.  Attempting to make all peace officers into “bad guys” is tantamount to saying that you can’t fly on a plane because there have been plane crashes. 

2)      Crimes are committed every day and often by those who have a previous criminal record.  Human nature is such that if I take one cookie without any repercussions, I can possibly trash the kitchen without anyone stopping me. I will make no assumptions about the cookies or the color of the hand in the jar.

3)      There are bad people. There are good people. There are angry and bitter people who have allowed their souls to be consumed by that negativity like a cancer.  There are positive and adjusted people who refuse to allow the past to ruin the future. My Dad believed that you find what you’re looking for (if people at your church are hateful, maybe you should start by taking a long look in the mirror rather than jumping churches. Again.) You make your own choices and chose the color of your lens as an adult.

4)      Slavery was a horrendous and unspeakable evil.  It still is.  There is still prejudice in our country, by too many folks of ALL colors. Period.

5)      There are some people who believe themselves competent leaders but in reality are only successful in creating a new crisis to use as their soapbox. 

You simply cannot say Michael Brown was innocent when eye witnesses and a camera verify his behavior.  When protestors change from carrying signs to chanting death, it begins to sound more like a conspiracy and they lose much of their credibility.   It is little wonder to me that two police officers were murdered by yet another person who has a criminal record.  Where are those who decried the actions in Ferguson? Those who whipped the crowd into a frenzy last week, actually demanding dead cops? And like so many, I wonder….if there were to be a crime against Al Sharpton or Mayor de Blasio, who the heck are they going to call if not the very police that they have demonized?


Just maybe it’s time to get new glasses.  Change the lenses, even at the cost of letting go of the pretty carrying case for the glasses or the tint that is too dark.  Or maybe, just maybe, some of us need to wear glasses to see the current situation accurately.  

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

The Christmas Card Tradition

This morning I was transported back to my childhood and the traditions passed on to me by Mother ...without speaking a word about what I should or would do as I grew into adulthood. There are multiple layers of tradition in this picture and, my heart like an onion or artichoke, harbors many layers. The stronger and sweeter the memories as you peel away to the heart. 
The needlepoint manger scene on the mantle was made for me by the wonderful choir at FUMC Somerset and I believe there is love in every stitch.  For many years when our furnishings were sparse, it was displayed year 'round.

On the table is a card file full of addresses of life-long family and friends, the same way my parents kept the addresses of esteemed friends at their fingertips.  The table, handmade by the late Orville Harner of New Vienna, Ohio, was used many times in my parents living room for just such activities. Yes, my folks had a fireplace and that was where my Mom hovered in the winter because she was always freezing COLD.  In her later years, she would be bundled up in 3-4 layers and gloves inside the house!
A few of the Christmas cards I used this year were ones that my Dad had crammed into the furniture before shipping it to Georgia. While not necessarily the sentiment or picture I would choose, it surely reminded me of my Mother ...who had definite ideas of what the cards should look like and what the sentiment should convey. One of which was that Christmas should be fully written, never abbreviated, especially as "Xmas".

Lastly, the rocking chair, my very favorite part of the picture. The rocking chair, pictured, and its matching straight back are my most prized possessions.  They belonged to my Mother's parents and sat in my own parents living room for as long as I can remember.  It is my hope one day to restore them through some tender loving care to their original 100+ year old glory---at least that is what I estimate for their age. In my imagination, Lucie is rocking her baby of three children, my mama, in that chair. I remember seeing my own children rocked there by my Mother. 

One day I dream of having my own grandchildren and being able to rock them in the same chair and tell them of their great grandparents and great, greats. If that rocker could speak, oh, the stories it would tell! In the meantime I will keep the tradition of writing Christmas cards to friends far away (I don't send local cards....go ahead, call me "Scrooge"....but that is another tradition my Mom kept). As I write, I take a moment with each to remember the best of memories. Then I say a prayer as I seal each envelope,  that God would enfold them in His loving care.  He surely has enfolded me with His blessings, many of which began long before I was born.  


Sunday, December 7, 2014

Hamloaf

Most folks have never heard of hamloaf.  It seems to be a regional thing and I grew up in Ohio.  Mom was a gifted and opinionated woman.  She loved her family, she was passionate about God, politics, travel and reading but not always prioritized in that manner.  You notice cooking did not make the list.  By the time I'm old enough to remember (as the youngest of 5 kids and Mom was over 40 when I was born), cooking was not even in the same zip code as her priority list.  Cleaning?  That's a whole 'nother blog post but I don't want to make Mama roll over in her grave.  Hamloaf is the subject at hand.  While I've never seen her recipe, I've played with others to attempt to get close to hers.  Here is my latest and it's pretty close to what I remember:

2lbs ground fresh ham (not cooked...you'll probably have to go to a butcher shop to get it.  All the hams at the big box chains seem to be pre-cooked or smoked)

1 sleeve round butter crackers (Ritz if you want the name brand)

12 oz tomato juice or something that resembles it

2 eggs, beaten

1/2 cup mayonaise

1 large squirt mustard

1 small-medium jar "designer" mustard (optional), set aside


Combine all ingredients and press into a square or rectangular pan.* Bake at 350 for approximately 60-90 minutes. Smear designer mustard on top before popping into the oven.  The one I used most recently had Champaign or something like that in the name, I think.   Pair with real, fresh sweet potatoes (not the processed ones that look like hocky pucks and doctored with cinnamon and brown sugar that kids might actually like!) and as many green vegetables as you can humanly find.  If you ever visited my parents home, you realize the enormity of this statement.  All meals were accompanied by milk, lots of milk.  Beets are good, too.  Mama loved beets.

*I've baked this in a 9x13 pan and it ends up dry and over done.  I suggest a slightly smaller pan or even square.  I like it best when the edges are almost nearly burned and the center looks "dry".  Again, it's a regional thing!